Only beautiful people succeed.
In a world without prejudices and factions of society, the aforementioned statement would be completely false. The color of your skin, the texture of your hair, the structure of your nose and the frame of your body would be completely irrelevant to the way you are treated and to the successes in your life.
Unfortunately, the world we live in is full of materialism, superficiality and the idea that being blond, blue-eyed, tall and slender will get you everywhere in life. Not only are these ideas portrayed daily to our youth through fashion magazines, pop culture icons and Hollywood, but they are spilling over into other countries. They are affecting the way people around the globe perceive ethnic identity.
Benjamin Kim, General Manager of a Korean restaurant in Las Vegas, gave the following view points on the overwhelming impact that the media are having on today’s world culture.
“When you’re born, you’re like a blank cd. Whatever environment you grew up in affects who you are. Everything you see nowadays on tv is all about how skinny you are and how pretty you are, so everybody is trying to fit in.”
There are all types of drastic measures people in different countries are taking to uphold that signature look of beauty. In Korea the endemic notion of ssang-ku-pool has led to an increasing surge in blepharoplasty or more commonly known as eyelid surgery.
Ssang-ku-pool is the Korean term for the crease above the eyelid, more commonly known as double-eyelid. Ssang-ku-pool is considered a Caucasian trait and results in a more rounder eye shape. Only 25% of full Koreans are born with ssang-ku-pool. However, blepharoplasty is completely aesthetic. It serves no other purpose then shamelessly beating Asian beauty and identity to the ground.
Growing up in the Asian culture of Las Vegas, Kim is able to successfully take a step back and analyze the soaring numbers of women and men in South Korea who are paying ridiculous amounts of money to shamelessly go under the knife and come out with a more Caucasian look.
“It’s all about first impressions. Korean people think first impressions are very important. So, if they’re not pretty enough, they’re not even going to have a chance to show what they’re capable of…The main reason why they’re having plastic surgery is because you’re more accepted by society. They’re so concerned with how society perceives them.”
Good fortune is considered much more than a main goal and aspiration in Asian cultures. Prosperity is viewed and described as the path to true happiness. Koreans and many other Asian cultures view wealth as a form of good blessing. So much of Asian culture is based around wealth that most beliefs passed down from generation to generation have connotations of money.
Although they may sound odd and far-fetched to some, examples of superstitions that involve future wealth include dreams about brown excrements, pigs and bloody teeth. Whereas, dreams of black excrements, teeth falling out and missing shoes can mean bad fortune in terms of relationships, health and wealth.
The direct relationship between wealth and beauty in traditional Asian cultures is strong. This is obvious in today’s cultures. The prevalence of famous actors and musicians in South Korea and other Asian countries who have undergone blepharoplasty is astonishing. Even more unbelievable is the notion that surgeries like blepharoplasty that clearly push Caucasian standards of beauty on other races are not looked down upon in anyway. They are very publicized by many notable Asian actors and media figures, and these surgeries are constantly being pushed by the parents of today’s generation of kids.
When asked of words of wisdom for tomorrow’s youth in light of this widespread twisted notion of beauty, Jacob Jameson, a notable Bar Manager in Las Vegas spoke strongly of his feelings against following the pact.
“Don’t be a sheep and follow. Be a leader. Do what you think is right, not what other people are doing to make themselves look better.”
The issue of ethnic identity and good fortune was researched to fulfill the final major paper for UNLV’s course of Journalism 310.
Benjamin Kim, Sally Kim and Jacob Jameson were interviewed on the topic.
Other interesting facts and data were taken from Beauty: The Korean Way by Julia Yoo and Asian-Americans Criticize Eyelid Surgery Craze by Sandy Kobrin.